Snap judgement….Boy I had to take myself to task recently when I snapped judged someone so inaccurately. I’m usually very empathic and my intuition rarely fails me. Boy did it on this one.
I have been in the process of a move and very fragmented. Not listening to my spirit guides as I should. Anyway I met a person, a big burley guy who seemed to be very arrogant and aloof. I failed to do what I would want others to do for me….look at the circumstances…walk in their shoes for a moment.
The fact is he recently moved, changed jobs, changed towns, changed his whole life. He was probably like I’ve been with my recent move….totally out of it and not worth much to anybody. His persona was suffering from analysis paralysis from trying to figure out the new everything.
Three months later he is settled in and truly delightful. A veritable gentle giant. Funny, caring and polite. It was a good reminder that when we snap judge, to make sure our intuition is in tact first. Then tune into that wonderful spirit we are observing. Make sure they are their normal self…during that moment in which we are judging.
Humans these days are so cynical and such judgy Smurfs. We tend to want to be outraged at others first, without knowing, or trying to find out the real story . Don’t be a judgy Smurf…tune in, tap in, turn on your spirit radar and pray you get the right read on people. We owe it to them and ourselves.